Contacting Me

Getting in touch with me is simple and there are many ways to reach me. My phone is on at all hours, and as long as I am awake and able to respond, your text message will always recieve a prompt and informative reply.
Texting me (202-738-8861) is the best way to communicate a time sensitive message and recieve an immediate response. I do not answer voice or FaceTime calls from people that have no pre-arranged to speak to me that way. If you call before introductions and arranging the voice call, I will forward it to voicemail and respond with a text message. After initial introductions, if it looks like we will be scheduling time together, I am happy to have a voice or FaceTime call with you to make you more comfortable.
E-MAIL IS NOT AN EFFECTIVE WAY TO BOOK APPOINTMENTS. Please only email me for thigns such as:
- General questions not answered here that are NOT in ANY WAY time sensitive.
- Video requests that are not time sensitive.
-Feedback and suggestions for this site
-To alert me to someone catfishing with my photos or posting my video content

I only check my e-mail an average of once a day, and reply to them even less often. Email is not effective for time sensitive messages or requests for appointments. AGAIN: You must send me an SMS text message to book a session. My email address is:

VioletProVixen@gmail.com Finally, you can message me on any of the platforms I use to advertise, or this site. I am active on several platforms: Tryst, PrivateDelights, Twitter, Instagram, and Switter. Links for my profiles can be found on the "Helpful Links" page of this site. On the home page you will find a feed connecting you to both my Twitter and Instagram accounts. Again, these online messaging systems are not an effective way to communicate time sensitive messages or booking appointments. Please use them for communications not related to scheduling.

Availability & Scheduling

Barring illness or emergency, I am typically available daily. I do not have a permanent schedule of hours because my other activities and commitments vary from day to day. However, I typically do not book sessions before noon. I usually schedule my first appointment of the day between 12:00pm-2:00pm. My last appointment is usually scheduled between 12:00am-2:00am, with the exception of Friday and Saturday nights, when I typically stay up later and often schedule sessions as late as 4:00am. These are not hard rules, however, and on any given night I could be up later or in bed earlier.

If a client wishes to schedule a session prior to noon because they are not available any other time, I am often willing to accomodate the request provided the intended session length is an hour or more. These requests must be made the night prior at the latest.

Most of my bookings are requested and scheduled in the afternoon and planned for that evening. While I do prefer and appreciate planning at least a day ahead, I have found that (partially due to not requiring a deposit) bookings scheduled further ahead are more likely to be forgotten or cancelled. For this reason, I usually ask clients requesting to schedule more than a day ahead of time to contact me again the night prior to their requested booking date to reconfirm.

While I do advertise as being available on short notice, short notice is not the same as immediate. When contacted by someone seeking my soonest time available, I usually suggest an appointment time an hour in the future. I do this whether or not I am actually busy because I need the time to prepare and I do not like the precedent and dynamic rushing to be immediately available creates. If you would like an appointment within the hour, I have added the option to add a $50 rush fee to the booking rate for an appointment time within the hour.

Most the time I am able to accomodate a same day appointment of 2 hours of less with as little as an hour's notice. Certain circumstances may occasionally prevent me from being available that quickly, so it is always suggested and appreciated if you can plan ahead at least a few hours.
Outcall sessions require a few hours notice most the time. In addition, outcall clients are required to order a round-trip ride (Uber/Lyft/Via) for me. This may change on a case by case basis depending on the client's location and proximity to mass transit.
Overnight sessions or sessions longer than 2 hours must be planned at least a day ahead of time. Sometimes an overnight request made by the early afternoon can be accomodated later that evening, but this is a rare occasion.

In my experience, gentlemen that schedule more than 48 hours ahead aren't likely to follow through with our plans. If you are the type that likes to plan ahead, booking a time with me the night before your intended appointment is more than enough notice. Most of my successful bookings are same-day appointments.

Late Arrivals

Even if you are only running a few minutes behind, I appreciate it when a client updates me. However, I do allow a ten minute grace period for arrivals. As long as you are less than ten minutes past your agreed upon appointment time, the session will continue as planned.

If you are going to be more than 10 minutes late for your session, please let me know as soon as possible. The earlier you inform me of your postponed arrival, the better prepared I can be. If I am given reasonable notice about a late arrival, I am more likely to be able to adjust your booking time and dedicate myself to your for the full session time.

When your delayed arrival is mentioned too close to your original booking time, I may not have time to change subsequent bookings, leaving me unable to grant you the full session length upon your arrival.
Depending on my availability and schedule, a late arrival may cut into your session time. If the client is otherwise respectful and pleasant and I have the time available, I will always opt to still provide the full session length. However, a rude or aggressive client is unlikely to be offered the full session time after a late arrival. Even with clients I am fond of, sometimes I cannot dedicate the time because of my established schedule.

I give 10 minutes grace period for unplanned late arrivals . Clients arriving within 10 minutes of their appointment time will have their session time start upon their arrival, not their appointment time. When I am not informed of a late arrival, I must consider my subsequent bookings. I start the session "timer" 10 minutes after the agreed appointment time in the event of a unexpected late arrival. For example, a client arriving at 2:50 for a 2:30 appointment of an hour will have 50 minutes left in their session time.


I understand that things happen. However, a last minute cancellation can effectively amount to a net loss of income because I dedicated that time to you and turned down other clients that would have likely folllowed through.

Cancellations an hour or more before your appointment time will have no impact on future bookings. As much notice as possible is expected if you cannot make your booking.

Cancellations less than an hour before your session (or less than a half hour when the appointment is made on short notice an hour in advance) may incur a $50 cancellation fee which will be added to the rate if you wish to book in the future. I keep records of these instances and I will refuse to reschedule any client without agreeing upon this small additional fee to compensate for my wasted time.

Cancellations made AFTER the scheduled booking time will be treated as "No Call, No Show". If you only inform me of the cancellation AFTER I contact you to ask why you have not arrived for your session, it will be treated as a "No Call, No Show"

Video Recording

Video recording of our encounter is permitted for an additional donation. These videos are permitted strictly for personal use. You can use your cell phone or camera to record POV or stationary shots of our encounter.
Any posting or sharing of these videos, whether sharing publicly on a website or sharing privately through direct messaging, monetized or not, will be considered a blatant disregard of my consent and may be subject to laws forbidding “revenge porn” and/or posting explict content of someone without their permission.
I am happy to be featured in your private videos, but only with the understanding and agreement that they are for your eyes only.
I record and sell personal XXX videos I created myself with a willing and enthusiastic partner. None of the videos I sell feature clients. Videos made with clients are for their private use only and are not to be shared (by either party) for any sort of monetary gain.
In addition to disrespecting boundaries and consent, sharing privately recorded videos of me is detrimental to my homemade porn endeavour. Help my porn stay valuable by keeping your specially recorded videos to yourself.


My session options and rates are listed everywhere I advertise. This site, Tryst, PrivateDelights, Switter, and Skip the Games all include rate information with my profile or listing. Rates for my services are not negotiable. Attempting to haggle or negotiate my session rates may result in refusal of service. It certainly will NOT result in me agreeing to a lower amount.

On rare occasions I do offer special rates and will advertise them on the online platforms listed above. As I establish myself further in the area, I will be raising my rates. Clients that consistently visit within every five weeks will get to stay at whatever my rate was when we met. This means clients that started seeing me when I first arrived, and see me within 5 weeks consistently, will keep an hourly rate of $350 after I have raised my rates to $400+. Regulars are kept at the initial rate structure.

Donations must be made in cash, preferably in large bills placed in a blank envelope. Donations are collected at the start of our appointment with no exceptions. The full agreed upon amount is required before any other topic or activity can be attempted.

I can also accept donations through PayPal (VioletVixxxV) or CashApp ($VixxxViolet).

Some clients may be permitted to make their session donations with a Visa Gift Card accompanied by the receipt, but only when previously discussed and agreed upon in extenuating circumstances. Donations for video packages can be made through CashApp and PayPal. I am also willing to accept digital gift cards for certain establishments or services. Uber, GrubHub, Starbucks, and iTunes are my favorites. I can provide a full list upon request

Cash, as always, is king. Nothing beats an unmarked envelop with large denomination bills. This is always my preferred donation.

XXX Video Sales

I maintain a library of XXX videos I have created with a particular partner. None of the videos I sell are client recordings of sessions. The large majority of them feature BBJ POV, with a few videos of other various activities.

Videos are sold in packages of 3 for $30, 7 for $60, or 10 for $85. Once I recieve confirmation of your payment in whatever form we agree upon, I will compile a list of links granting access to the video files in Google Drive. It is my understanding that access allows the content to be downloaded as well as streamed.

Ideally, donations for videos should be made through ApplePay (7185939491 iMessage) or PayPal (VioletVixxx@protonmail.com). Please include your email address in the note attached to your payment confirmation.

I am also willing to accept digital gift cards. Visa Gift Cards, Uber, GrubHub, Amazon, or iTunes are good secondary options if ApplePay or PayPal is not accessible to you.


Ideally you should shower, bathe, or wash any part you want me near prior to arrival. However, if you are unable to shower because you are coming from work or an event, you are welcome to shower or wash yourself in the bathroom available at my incall location. Please be aware that any time you spend on hygiene after arriving to my location will count toward your total session time. Session time starts when you arrive at my door.

If any part of your body is poorly groomed or washed, I may refuse to include it in our session activities. I expect both your hands and body to be freshly washed when we begin our session. If for any reason I feel my health or safety would be at risk performing a certain activity with you, I will refuse your request.

You want me to be fresh, clean, and appealing. Please be considerate of my experience as well. If you urinate immediately before we begin, please make sure you rinse off with water.


Activities that are not included in my standard sessions are likely still available to you, but regarded as an extra. For instance, I am willing to engage in many types of fetish play, but because the topic is so broad it is difficult to create a standard menu for everything. Many fetish activities are very specific. I determine some of these niche activites on a case by case basis. Don't be shy to ask! Just because I don't mention a certain activity does not mean I am not open to it.

BDSM Play (50-100+) Additional cost varies depending on whether the client requests domination (50-100) or submission (100+) and the intensity of the activities.
Rimming (50) Client must be freshly washed and reasonably groomed to be eligible for this extra.

Pegging (100) Client is expected to provide toys of their choosing for this activity.

Role Play (50-100) Additional donation amount depends on the specific role-play scenario.

Video Record Your Session (50)Clients are allowed to record with their phone as long as the resulting footage is strictly for personal use. Session videos are not to be shared or posted anywhere online. If I discover your recording posted anywhere online, I will blacklist you in the provider community and possibly take legal action.


In my experience, the language a person uses and the way they communicate with me tells me much more about their underlying personality and attitude than simple identification does. A client that passes traditional screening may be insufferable, arrogant, and demanding despite willingness to provide their personal information. On the other hand, someone that does not have references or some other piece of information can end up making great company. Any information you would like to volunteer is certainly appreciated and would help me feel safer and assued. However, I do not require personal information such as government ID, proof of employment, or references. The qualities that make a person a pleasant client or a danger are independent of their legal name and employment information. Personality cannot be assumed from a copy of someone's driver's license. If anyone that contacts me speaks to me in a way that makes me feel uneasy, sounds arrogant or demaning, or demonstrates a lack of respect for me and my time, I refuse the booking. This system actually results in me refusing to book the majority of men that contact me. If I determine our interaction is pleasant and polite enough to build my confidence in your character, I will ask for your name, age, and a photo of you. I do not keep the photos sent by clients, they are simply to help me recognize you when we meet and for my protection should something happen. If all goes well with our session, I will delete the photo at the end of the booking. DO NOT SEND ME A PHOTO OF YOUR PENIS AT ANY POINT IN OUR INTERACTION. I will refuse to communicate with you further. I believe this system find a good balance between allowing you the discretion and relative anonymity you desire, while also giving me some comfort in my decision to invite a man I have never met to spend time together privately.

Social Dates and Modeling

For clients looking for arm candy and company for special nights, I offer social (platonic) dates for outings and events at a rate of 200/hr. However, if the evening concludes with a private, intimate encounter, my full rate is expected for the hour (or more) including those activities. I am also available for modeling. Swimsuit, lingerie, or nude. There is no physical contact during photo shoots. Lingerie and other partially clothed shoots are $125/hr. Nude photo shoots are $200/hr. I also require access to the photos taken. If you want your own professional watermark on them, or to be credited as the photographer anywhere I show them, I am more than happy to do that. You would maintain the copywright and ownership, but allow me to use the photos for advertising purposes and promotion of my website.

Two Girl Sessions/Couples

I do not have a duos partner. Although I would like to, I have not developed bonds with any local providers deep enough to reccommend one in particular to join us. That being said, it would be my pleasure to schedule a two girl session. I would enjoy the oppritunity to work with another provider and I do not suffer from any of the envy or defensiveness so many women struggle with when it comes to female relationships.

If you can find and book a second girl for our session, I will gladly participate. In the case of returning clients, I would even be willing offer assistance in finding and communicating with the second provider if you would like the help. For first time clients, I cannot commit the time and effort to that task before we have ourselves met and developed a rapport. Still, I would be eager and excited to offer two girl service with the provider of your choosing.

I am also happy to be the third for any couples looking to have a threesome. Hiring an escort for such an occasion is a sure way to keep the emotional trickiness to a minimum. I do couple's threesomes at 1.5x my rate for one-on-one sessions. I start by having a private discussion with the woman about her preferences and boundaries. Making your wife/girlfriend comfortable is my top priority. I want to make sure she has a good time and doesn't feel threatened. Unless otherwise instructed by her, I will likely focus most my attention on her during our activity. I aim to provide a threesome experience that is fun for everybody and does not in any way damage or strain the relationship after I'm gone.


I do not require a deposit ahead of a scheduled session. There are some scenarios, however, that may require an additional investment. *When a client requests an outcall I only accept and schedule the session if they agree to order and pay for an Uber or Lyft ride for me to their location and back. This investment protects me from embarking on wild goose chases and ensures the person is genuine and serious about their request. Ordering my ride is absolutely mandatory. I will not accept an outcall request without it.
*Last minute cancellations and no call, no show fees may be applied to the subsequent booking after the event warranting them.
*Overnight or multiple hour sessions scheduled more than 48 hours in advance often fall through. Because of this, I do not dedicate the time in my schedule until final confirmation prior to the appointment. Sometimes I schedule other, more imminent bookings because I cannot be sure of a booking scheduled days in advance. In order to dedicate the time for your booking at the time of request, you may offer a small deposit to show your sincerity. I do not require it, but I also do not refuse additional booking requests until I am confident you will successfully arrive for your booking.

How to Communicate

When you contact me, please introduce yourself in a message using complete sentences to tell me your name, age, and the general request you have. For example:
Hey Violet. My name is John, 45. I was hoping we could talk about your session options and possibly schedule a session. Please do not open with any of these:

Where are you located?
You busy?
How much?

These types of initial messages are rude and off-putting. Opening with a simple greeting is also less than ideal, but still preferable to a rude question.

When you contact me the first time, you have already had access to photos, posts, and lots of information about me. Before you ask for additional information, I expect you to first provide some information about yourself to even things out.

I expect you to know my name when asked. Extra points if you start with "Hello, Violet" to demonstrate you know it. I expect you to be willing to visit this site when I send you the link, if you haven't already. I expect you to be respectful, introduce yourself to me, and know what kind of session you want to book. I expect you to use complete sentences and use words like "please" and "thank you." I expect you to allow a reasonable amount of time for a response withotu sending "???" sixty seconds after a message. I expect you to ask ahead of time if you want to plan a phone call. I do not answer unplanned calls. If you ask me for any info that is available here, such as rates or photos, I will direct you here.

I refuse to see men that are rude. Don't be rude. Speak to me like you would speak to a woman you respect.

TO BE HONEST: I doesn't matter to me whether you ACTUALLY respect me, but treat me as if you do.

Those that are kind, polite, reasonable, and reliable get the very best out of me. I can give my most enthusiastic service when I feel safe, appreciated, and respected.


Outcall requests of a single hour are of lower priority than incall requests of any length. Because my time is currently in high demand, the (essentially) unpaid travel time to and from an outcall booking renders the appointment a net loss, in most cases. The total time that must be dedicated (usually 1.5-2 hours minimum) to fulfilling an outcall request (waiting to the Uber, the drive both ways, & session itself) is more valuable than the $500 donation I ask for for outcalls. Two hours of my time on an incall basis is $700+, much more than outcall. In BOTH CASES I am dedicating two hours to my client. Whether you monopolize my time by being in my room, taking a shower in my bathroom, or asking me to travel to visit you, the fact of the matter is that I am taking the time from my day to fulfill your request alone. On this principal, outcalls work out to be a net loss for me. I explain this so it is understood why I have the requirements I do for outcalls.

All outcall requests must be planned well in advance. A single hour's advance for incalls is suffcient, as long as I am available. However, outcalls must be planned a minimum of three hours in advance. A single hour outcall is likely to be declined, unless it has extras added, is for a preferred client, or is close by. Multiple hour outcall bookings are preferred, but a booking of more than 2 hours requires a small deposit. This is because if you book 2 hours of my night (3+ with travel) then in the 3 hours before we meet, I will likely recieve many requests for incalls. If you expect me to turn them down in order to remain available to you, you must demonstrate your commitment to the appointment by making a deposit. If I reject several incall requests as I get ready to see you, but then you cancel, I could potentially lose thousands of dollars of income.

For all clients, providing an Uber/Lyft for me OR sending a small amount via CashApp to cover this expense myself is absolutely required. If I do not require this of you because you have proven yourself to be a regular and reliable client, I will tell you. Unless I inform you that I will take care of either the round trip or return trip myself, a round trip rideshare order is required for your outcall.

This "deposit" amount does not count toward the cost of your session. It is separate. If you choose to a send transportation stipend instead of ordering the ride yourself, you will still owe the full donation amount upon my arrival. This money is simply to get me to you.

I strongly prefer that you order the ride for me yourself, as this serves to comfort the nerves of both parties. It shows me you are serious and a legit booking, and it shows you I am really coming. It gives the peace of mind of a deposit, without the fear of someone running off with your money.

I will repeat: This is ABSOLUTELY mandatory for outcalls. You cannot reimburse me with cash upon arrival. I refuse to travel to you on my own dime. This is not a perk you can tell me you will give if I do something extra for you. It is a basic requirement of the outcall, not an extra tip of some kind or a generous favor.

Whenever possible, please opt for an incall instead. It is less expensive and easier logistically for everyone.

No Call, No Show

NOTE: Clients in the VIP Rewards group will be forgiven for one instance of Late Cancellation or No Call, No Show every 6 months. They do not roll over, and subsequent instances will follow the regular policy.

I define the result of a booking a "No Call, No Show" when the client does not cancel prior to the agreed session time. If you simply ghost me or only inform me you can't make it after I have initiated the conversation, that also falls under this category.

"No Call, No Show" clients are the absolute worst scheduling mishap, in my opinion. It screws up my schedule, wastes my time, and effectively costs me money because I could have scheduled someone else. I am selective about who I am willing to see, and try to only pick gents that seem reliable and genuine. When you miss your appointment, there is a nearly endless list of potential clients that WOULD have shown up.

There are two ways I handle subsequent interactions after a client has essentially stood me up. Which option I choose depends on the previous relationship, the attitude and behvaior of the client in other situations, and my general mood. Some instances of NCNS are more deliberate, inconvienient, or disrespectful than others.

I give 24-36 hours after an instance of NCNS for the client to make up their appointment. If they reschedule and complete a session of the same length or longer within that 36 hours, it will be as if the NCNS never happened.

When a client "No Call, No Show"s on a booking, but contacts me at a later date requesting to reschedule, I either require an additional $100 added to the new session's donation amount to compensate for their transgression, or I ask for a $50 deposit to be made to me in order to make the appointment in the first place. This $50 is in addition to the session donation, the full amount will still be due at the time of service. Sometimes I offer a choice between the two. If a client has NCNS more than one time, the additional $100 on the session donation will be required up front as a deposit to schedule the session, with the listed rate due at the time of service.

If the client attempts to persuade me to drop this additional fee or refuses to pay it, I refuse service.

If the client is rude or demanding, I may refuse service without first giving the option to instead pay a fee.

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